Showing posts with label National Etiquette Week. Show all posts
Showing posts with label National Etiquette Week. Show all posts

Friday, May 13, 2016

National Etiquette Week - Day 5

FLIGHT ETIQUETTE


Pilots Know Best

In Ron Cox's 37 years of flying, he has seen it all. Many have overlooked what might seem like standard rules for proper flight (and public) behavior, leaving their neighbors uncomfortable and displeased. 

1. Tell us a little about your background and what you currently do.
I'm a Georgia native, grew up in Cartersville, graduate of West Georgia College (now the University of West Georgia). I've been flying for 37 years total, and have been with an airline for 30 years. I currently am a 767-400 Captain flying to Europe and South America. I have previously been a Captain on 767-200, 767-300, 757, 737, and 727.
2. What are your top rules for passengers to practice excellent flight etiquette?
The practice that passengers most often engage in that is most inappropriate is, in my opinion, taking off shoes and socks. To make matters worse, they then put their dirty feet on the armrest of the seat in front. The foot is on the rearmost area of the armrest and is unseen by the occupant of the armrests seat, but the practice is unsightly, unseemly, unclean and most often smelly. The utmost in disrespect, and a complete breach of etiquette.
3. What is the one mistake you see people constantly make while travelling?
People always assume that they have to bring everything with them in an onboard suitcase. Most often this is because they fear a checked bag being lost. On my airline we lose about 3 bags per 100,000 and those are found and delivered within 24 hours well over 90% of the time. Checking a bag frees up overhead space for other passengers and mostly, it makes the airport experience much less worrisome. Getting on and off of an airplane without the fuss of a bag is the way to go. Also, most airports are designed so that passengers have to walk past baggage claim anyway, so why not check it?
4. If you could give one piece of advice to all passengers before and during their flight, what would it be?
My traveling advice would be pay attention, be courteous toward and respectful of the flight crew as well as gate agents, ticket agents, etc. They are trained to take care of our passengers and sometimes when dealing with hundreds of thousands of passengers per day, things go wrong. Planes break, computers go down and reservation changes sometimes fall through the electronic cracks. Be patient. Be respectful. It will be repaid tenfold.
5. Is there anything we haven't covered but you would like to tell travelers before they book their next flight?
The airline industry is amazing in its ability to gather up a passenger and deposit them hundreds of thousands of miles away, usually within a few minutes of when their ticket, printed months earlier in many cases, stated they would arrive. It's a meticulously planned and highly efficient system, when everything is taken into account. It works so well that it's almost taken for granted. Sometimes, however, things malfunction. Don't take out your frustrations on the airport/airline employee, however. In almost every case, their day just became exponentially harder because of the same breakdown.

How To Be Courteous on Your Flight


  1. Prepare ahead of time.
  2. Check behind you before you recline.
  3. The middle seat always gets the armrests.
  4. Be respectful of those around you. Use headphones, talk quietly, etc.
  5. Allow those in front of you to disembark first. 
  6. Practice good hygiene and be mindful of body odor.
  7. Be careful not to kick the chair in front of you.
  8. Leave room for other people's bags in the overhead bin. 

 
 
 

Thursday, May 12, 2016

National Etiquette Week - Day 4

PET ETIQUETTE


The Petiquette Expert

We talked with Jeff Bangle, a veterinarian in the Athens area, about the expectation of pets and their owners during visits.

1. Tell us a little about your background and personal experience in the veterinary field.
My undergraduate degree is from Presbyterian College, and I graduated from UGA College of Veterinary Medicine in 1996. I began my career in Watkinsville, Georgia where I am co-owner of Oconee Veterinary Hospital. My focus is strictly companion animal medicine with special interests in internal medicine, dermatology, surgery, senior pet care, physical therapy and rehabilitation of injured, arthritic or postoperative orthopedic patients.
2.  What are your top etiquette rules for pet owners when visiting the vet?
Be on time. We don't want to rush you to get to the next appointment.
Have your dog on a leash and under control, and/or have your cat in a secure carrier.
Come prepared with questions, undivided attention, and focus on your pet. I work on 30 minute appointments, and I like to make sure you leave with a full understanding of what we are trying to accomplish on your visit with us.
3. What is the one mistake you see people make when it comes to their pets, specifically involving etiquette?
Most of my clients and their pets do exceptionally well! The occasional out of control pet is to be expected. We love to see pets happy when they come and see us!
4. If you could give one piece of advice to new pet owners, what would it be?
Hard to give just one piece of advice! Really, in a nutshell, listen to your veterinarian, trust their advice and be prepared to ask questions. Allow for regular wellness and preventative exams as well as diagnostic testing. Consider pet insurance; yes, it can be very useful. Realize you are your pet's entire life. They have only you, they worship you, and are totally dependent on you to take care of them. Be responsible!
5. What advice can you give new pet owners to ensure good pet etiquette?
Start training your pets very young. There is a very short window of opportunity in a young pets' life that proper socialization skills can be ingrained. Teach them early how to walk on a leash, and how to learn basic commands so your life in the yard or at the dog park isn't miserable when another person or dog is nearby.

Public Behavior 101


  1. Keep aggressive dogs close and offer your help and information in the incident your dog hurts another pet.
  2. Feed your dog before taking him to a store or restaurant.
  3. Train your dog to greet others in a polite way.
  4. Always maintain control of your dog in public places.
  5. Obey all leash laws.
  6. Prepare your pet well before leaving them for long periods of times so they do not disturb your neighbors.
  7. Teach your dog gentle behavior around children.
  8. The sooner your pet learns basic commands the better behaved they should be around other people and in public.
  9. Be prepared when travelling with your pet.
  10. Always clean up after your pet.
  11. Gently but firmly set up boundaries when it comes to how your pet interacts with other people's personal property.
  12. Be mindful of others when bringing your pet to parties or gatherings. Some people aren't comfortable around pets.
  13. Know how your pet interacts with new people and make accommodations that ensure the comfort of both parties.
  14. Before visiting someone for an overnight, always ask permission to bring your pet.  

Monday, May 9, 2016

National Etiquette Week - Day 1

"There are manners in everything."


GOLF ETIQUETTE



People from all over the world pay thousands of dollars to give up their cell phones for a day. There are rules, there is respect, there is conversation, there are standards. Millions of people live their lives waiting and yearning for this opportunity to pass their way. I have had the honor and privilege to be a part of this group. Attending this day over the past 40 years of my life usually was preceded by priority of guest selection, appropriate attire and calendar adjustments. But this particular day trip came with a different set of expectations. I sought to seek those outdated and thought to be unwanted ways of life to be alive and well and sought after.

As I stepped out of the car of my Uber driver into the cool crisp air that early April morning the smell of springtime filled the air, laughter from those waiting patiently to cross the busy city street rifled above the joy of the soon to be guest. Everyone spoke and interacted with the strangers around them. The crosswalk security directed the masses of happy people with civil tones and appropriate gestures. People spoke to strangers as if they were family members. As we entered the gates of the prized event those attending waiting in line eagerly. Those in attendance were excited to do whatever was asked of them to be able to complete the passage.

Thousands of guests entered at the same time. There was no pushing or shoving. There were no derogatory expletives. People took time out of their day to share handouts of the upcoming day's event. They were welcomed with thank you's, hand shakes and please excuse me. Smiles and uplifting conversation were being exchanged between those waiting in extensive lines for that coveted memorabilia. Stories of past trips were intently listened to so sincerely that it encouraged others to share. We gathered our purchases and found our way to the montage of lines to maneuver where we were greeted with numerous smiles and happy hearts. The outdoor lunch seating was packed and we were offered by this group of unknowns a prime seat where we introduced ourselves. Once again, handshakes were offered and conversation and personal connections were made. The attendants at the "necessary", aka restroom, were greeted by these unknowns as if they were the ones we had given up our cell phones for.

Over and over again, minute by minute the compilation of the day was filled with this same uniqueness. Respect...for others, for property, for rules and for standards. This event epitomizes the rules of civility, protocol and etiquette. It is the MASTER'S golf tournament in Augusta, Georgia. This week, May 9 - 13, begins National Etiquette Week. Every day this week The Etiquette and Leadership Institute will follow people and places where etiquette is defined. It encompasses everyday activities. There is ETIQUETTE in EVERYTHING. After hours of research and interviews we have found that MANNERLY, RULE FOLLOWING PEOPLE do exist.

-An Essay by April McLean

Jordan Spieth's Thank You Notes



"A wise coach reminded me recently, winning shows your character and losing shows ALL your character." - Jordan Spieth's Caddie

Jordan Spieth has been known to be a gentleman on the course as well as off. Below, you can read a thank you note that young Jordan Spieth wrote when he was just 15 years old. A handwritten note goes a long way to showing someone just how much you appreciate them. 


Tips for Beginners and Pros



  1. Cell phones, cameras, and electronic devices are prohibited.
  2. Be quiet especially when silence is required. 
  3. Be still when a shot is being executed. 
  4. Use crosswalks and never duck under roped off areas.
  5. Autographs are only permitted during a certain time. Plan ahead and do not accost the golfers.
  6. Don't be the slowest player. 
  7. Always be a good sport. 
  8. Always make your tee times.
  9. Golf carts should be invisible.
  10. Always look your best.

Friday, May 15, 2015

Thursday, May 14, 2015

NEW Day 4: #TalkingThursday

Happy National Etiquette Week! Today is...

#TalkingThursday

Have you heard of Phone Stacking? It's a new game to get people talking to one another of instead of being focused on their phones! Whether you're out to dinner or just hanging out with friends or family, challenge everyone to stack their cell phones on the table. First person to check the phone pays the bill! Here are the rules...

 Start the game after everyone has ordered.

 Stack phones on the table.

 First person to check a text or call loses!

 Loser pays for all the food!

 If no one is tempted, everyone wins and just pays for his or her food!


Come back tomorrow for NEW Day 4!









Tuesday, May 12, 2015

NEW DAY 2: #TastyTuesday

Happy National Etiquette Week! Today is...

#TastyTuesday

Let's talk dining etiquette and table settings!

Bread plate & drink


Make a b and a d with your hands. B is for bread; D is for drink. Your left hand makes a b...bread plate goes on the left! Your right hand makes a d...drink goes on the right!

Forks, knives & spoons


How many letters in the word "fork"? 4.
How many letters in the word "left"? 4.
Your fork goes on your left.

How many letters in the word "knife"? 5.
How many letters in the word "spoon"? 5.
How many letters in the word "right"? 5.
Your knife goes on your right.


S&P, together forever


Salt and pepper are "married"—you never pass one without the other!

Come back tomorrow for NEW Day 3!

Monday, May 11, 2015

Happy National Etiquette Week!

NEW is here again!

May 11-15 is National Etiquette Week, an event founded in 1997 by children's etiquette consultant Sandra Morisset. What a great way to celebrate the importance of courtesy, civility, and good manners—not just once a year for a week, but in the little, ordinary moments that make up everyday life.

So, how are we kicking it off?

#ModernMannersMonday

For excellent examples of Modern Manners, check out our favorite book - "Modern Manners: Tools to Take you to the Top" by Dorothea Johnson and Liv Taylor. (We'd love it even if Dorothea Johnson, founder of the Protocol School of Washington, hasn't called us "the nation's most outstanding source of children's etiquette training"!)

"Modern Manners" is now being translated for readers in Russia, Poland, Saudi Arabia, Japan, Netherlands...it's a good time for you to find a copy, too!



We'll see you tomorrow for NEW Day 2!






Friday, May 16, 2014

NEW Day 5: Interact!

Happy Day 5 of National Etiquette Week: Be a Citizen Diplomat! So far, we’ve covered getting a passport, learning a language, the importance of traveling itself, and respect

We’ll wrap up NEW with one word:

Interact.


We’ve talked a lot about how to act while traveling abroad, but did you know that you can still be a citizen diplomat even if you never leave the U.S.?

Yes! You can welcome other travelers who are visiting the U.S. Perhaps you could host an international student for a meal…or a year of school. Student exchange programs are plentiful throughout the U.S. Or you could check into your state’s international visitors organizations, which matches adults with international colleagues in their common professions. What do all of these visitors want when they visit the U.S.? Real interactions with real Americans. You can provide these interactions—and make them great ones, leaving your visitors with a positive impression of both you and your country. That’s the power of a good citizen diplomat!

We hope you take the spirit of National Etiquette Week with you throughout the year!

Thursday, May 15, 2014

NEW Day 4: Respect!

Happy Day 4 of National Etiquette Week: Be a Citizen Diplomat! We’ve already talked about getting a passport, learning a language, and the fundamental importance of traveling itself…Today, we’re going to talk about…

Respect.


We encourage you to research your travel destination before you hop on that plane or boat. However, you may not be able to know every custom, etiquette rule, or accepted manners in another country, and that’s OK.

What IS absolutely essential is the respect, curiosity, engagement, and thirst for learning that you bring with you when you travel. Kindness, friendliness, and being interested in others will help transcend any etiquette mistakes or confusion in cultural differences.

So, instead of loudness, self-centeredness, not listening  or watching…we suggest you aim for quiet observance, a willingness to learn from others, and respect. It’s the difference of communicating negative versus positive standards—it’s you being a good citizen diplomat!

Wednesday, May 14, 2014

NEW Day 3: Travel!

Happy Day 3 of National Etiquette Week: Be a Citizen Diplomat! We’ve already talked about getting a passport and learning a language…Today, we strongly suggest you do one thing.

Travel.


We especially encourage this of teenagers and young adults. There are many organizations designed to help young people plan international trips; some of them are through religious organizations, and many are through college study abroad programs. You might be able to find scholarship, sponsorship or other financial aid—find a way!



Traveling is a phenomenal and eye-opening education. It will fundamentally enrich your worldview and how you move in the world, both in your hometown and in other countries, now and in your future!

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

NEW Day 2: Learn a language!

Happy Day 2 of National Etiquette Week: Be a Citizen Diplomat! We’ve already talked about getting a passport…Today, we’re going to encourage you to…

Learn a language.



If you are traveling to another country, make a concerted effort to learn some helpful phrases and make the effort to communicate. It’s true that in most large cities, at least some amount of English is spoken. But what if you travel to a smaller city? Even if you do spend all of your time in an English-speaking space, your effort to learn the local language will speak volumes about your consideration of others, especially while you are a guest.

So, try your best. If you mess up a phrase, just smile and laugh—that’s a language everybody speaks.

Monday, May 12, 2014

NEW Day 1: Passport!

Happy National Etiquette Week: Be a Citizen Diplomat! Let’s kick things off with…

NEW Day 1: Get a Passport


Summer is travel time! Did you know that if you travel, you’re a diplomat by default? That’s right—your actions represent your experiences, values, and hometown. While a public diplomat represents his or her government overseas, being a citizen diplomat simply means that you are engaging in some way with someone outside your own country.

And how do you become a citizen diplomat in the first place? Get a passport! You might think, “Why do that if I don’t have any trips planned?” Well, getting a passport will help you and your family understand a bit about the process of becoming an American citizen. It’s helpful to have a passport on hand for unexpected opportunities. And you’re a lot more likely to make exciting travel plans if you’ve already got your passport!

So, get that passport—and then fill it with stamps from all over the planet.

Thursday, May 8, 2014

What's N.E.W. with You?

Next week – May 12-16—is National Etiquette Week! Established in 1997, NEW is an annual event that encourages us to examine the state of civility in the U.S. This year, we look at not just civility here, but also the civility we bring with us when we travel elsewhere…

Because this year’s theme is Be a Citizen Diplomat. 


It’s all about the impact that courtesy, kindness, and good manners have when traveling outside of the U.S. and while interacting with guests visiting our country. (Great timing- May is also Global Civility Awareness Month!)


Check here every day next week, starting Monday, for a new topic that will help you be a fantastic citizen diplomat! In the meantime, we leave you with the following quotes to keep you inspired!

“The work of the citizen diplomacy community is not just a nice thing to do; its repercussions have far-reaching implications. Future global prosperity, peace, and stability are dependent upon increased international cooperation, collaboration, and mutual understanding.”—Jennifer Clinton, President, GlobalTies U.S.

“Civility – though you may live in a different world ideologically, you live in the same world physically.  Play nice.”—ChooseCivility

“I have long believed, as have many before me, that peaceful relations between nations requires understanding and mutual respect between individuals. If only people will get together, then so eventually will nations.”—President Dwight D. Eisenhower

“When your work speaks for itself, don’t interrupt.”—Henry J. Kaiser

“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.”—Plato

“Average Americans, in their natural state, are the best ambassadors a country can have.”—Eugene Burdick & William Lederer, authors of The Ugly American
  
“America’s greatest asset is our citizens. While governmental interventions and assistance are crucial, they leave a lot of room for purposeful citizen diplomats to generate sustainable achievements that result from partnerships built on merit, trust, and mutual interests.”—Benjamin Orbach, Founder & Director, America’sUnofficial Ambassadors

“Be real.  Try to do what you say, say what you mean, and be what you seem.”—Marion Wright Edelman

Friday, May 17, 2013

NEW Day 5: 10 Quotes


National Etiquette Week ends today! But that doesn't mean we have to neglect etiquette the rest of the year. We all know that a little bit of kindness goes a long way in creating a brighter world of respect and civility. And if we forget, here are 10 quotes to help us remember!



"Count your age by your friends, not years.  Count your life by smiles, not tears." John Lennon

"Civility – though you may live in a different world ideologically, you live in the same world physically.  Play nice." —  ChooseCivility

"When your work speaks for itself, don’t interrupt." —Henry J. Kaiser

"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle." —Plato

"Today you are you, that is truer than true.  There is no one alive who is youer than you!" —Dr. Seuss

"Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see." —Mark Twain

"A compliment is verbal sunshine." — Robert Orben

"Be real.  Try to do what you say, say what you mean, and be what you seem." —Marion Wright Edelman

....And remember...

"One kind word can change someone’s entire day." — Everyone!

Thursday, May 16, 2013

NEW Day 4: Fun with Family

Why not get the family involved in celebrating National Etiquette Week?

Inspired by our own family experiences at home, the Perfectly Polished classroom, and "The Family Dinner" by Laurie David, here are just a few ideas on how to introduce etiquette and manners to the whole family. Some of them are conversation starters, some encourage good table manners, and some are just fun ways to connect with each other!



Etiquette Fun with Family

Try the classic “I’m going on a picnic and I’m taking….” game. Go around the table, with each person adding an item to the list—after repeating all of the items already mentioned. You can make it trickier by following certain word patterns.

• Keep a Show & Tell Bowl on the table. Family members add found objects to the bowl throughout the week; designate a meal for sharing about these items.

• Put together a playlist for:  1.  Fixing dinner; 2. Eating dinner; and 3. Cleaning up dinner.

Water….just plain? No!  Add lemon, lime, cinnamon, mint, cucumber, orange slices….just not all at the same time!

• Google "napkins folds" and try your hand at fun shapes for napkins at dinner.

• The ABC Game:  Pick a letter and category —for example, "animals that start with the letter B"—and get to naming!

• Spell it, define it, use it….learn a new word each week.

Serve soup in tea cups, desserts in stemmed glasses, and hot chocolate in small bowls.  Yes, it is correct and you heard it from the experts at the Etiquette & Leadership Institute!

Come back tomorrow for a NEW wrap-up!

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

NEW Day 3: 10 Conversation Starters


Happy National Etiquette Week! Let's talk about making conversation.


You'd think that talking should be easy, but making meaningful conversation can be hard.
Sometimes a gap in conversation is a comfortable silence among good friends, and sometimes it's terribly awkward. Getting a conversation going can also be difficult.

We suggest having a few ideas for conversation starters at the back of your head before going into a social situation. Depending on your setting and company—family dinners, dinner parties, teen parties, even an etiquette class!—you can rely on any number of our...

10 Conversation Starters

• What is your manners pet peeve?

• Is it better to burp or sneeze at the table?

• What could you do to help someone who is hungry?

• If you could be any character from a book, who would you be and why?

• If you could be any character from a movie, who would you be and why?

• If you could plan a perfect menu, what would it be?

• If you could plan a perfect vacation, where would you go and who would go with you?

• Who is your favorite teacher and why?

• What is the most fun thing you have done during the summer?

• If you could build a car, what would it look like?

See you tomorrow for more NEW etiquette tips!

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

NEW Day 2: 10 Things for Your Community

Happy Day 2 of National Etiquette Week!

It's easier than you think to include good manners in your everyday life. Not only does it brighten your day, but it also builds a connection with the community around you. Good feelings all around! Why not follow our to-do list...




10 Ways to Help Others with Manners!


• Hold a door for someone.

• Compliment three random strangers.

• Help someone with their groceries/packages.

• Buy someone’s newspaper/coffee for them.

• Help someone who is lost.

• Smile at five strangers.

• Write a thank you note to the teacher that changed your life.

• Leave a generous tip.

• Sing your favorite song out loud.

• Pay the toll for the car behind you.

See you tomorrow as we continue to celebrate NEW!


Monday, May 13, 2013

NEW Day 1: Manners & Meals

Welcome to National Etiquette Week

We talk a lot about good manners benefiting society in a lot of ways, some of them subtle. Right now, we're going to focus on some more tangible results —specifically related to manners and meals.



Knowing how to set a table is a life and career skill, especially for those pursuing hospitality careers. All of us need to know how to set a table for guests at least once in our lives! But there are other benefits beyond that.

According to The Family Dinner Project

• Keeping a conversation going over dinner is good for your health. It takes around 20 minutes for your stomach to feel full after eating, and a good chat with family and friends can replace mindless eating.

• Teens who regularly dine with their families are less likely to smoke cigarettes, use marijuana or abuse alcohol, according to a Columbia University study, while researchers at Harvard have found family meals encourage a child's language skills and may improve school grades.

• Family dinners increase healthy eating, and can reduce obesity.

If you want to have more family dinners but feel like you don't have the time or resources to  get food on the table, or to get everyone together at once, check out The Family Dinner Project's tips on how to make it happen.

Come back tomorrow and learn how manners can help your community!